
Wow…I can’t believe that 3 years ago I stood in front of a chapel full of our friends and family, and said these words to my wonderful bride, Abbie:
Abbie
I, Rick / Give myself completely to you, Rick,/
To be your wife in marriage;/ I will submit to your leadership/
As I trust your guidance from the Lord/ and His Word to guide our lives;/
I will be faithful to God and to you
and I will never leave you;/
Honor, serve, & cherish you;/
And divorce,/ whether mental, emotional, spiritual, or physical,/
Will never be an option to me./
I will forgive you as Christ has forgiven me;/
I will encourage, challenge and pray for you./
And I will keep Christ/ at the center of our marriage./
And I will love with all of my heart, soul, mind, and strength all of the days of my life
All this I vow/ to you and to God
I really meant and mean every single one of the words. The man who married us, and one of my closest friends, Don Munton, asked everyone in attendance that night to hold us accountable to these vowels we made to each other. I’m thankful that many of them have. If you are reading this, you to have permission to hold me accountable to these promises as well. This has really been the best 3 years of my life. I am beyond humbled that God allows me to live the life I live, with the people I get to live it with. I’m truly blessed. Thank you Abbie for looking past my ten million flaws and saying “Yes” 3 years ago…..you really are the most amazing women I have ever met. (And I”m not just saying that because you are my wife….!)
Oh, one more thing. If you know me in “real life” then you know that our son, Noah, is due the first week of January. I just wanted to say something to him real quick….
Noah, I’m not sure if we’ll have the internet by the time you are old enough to read, (who knows, we may be in the matrix by then) but if so, please know you have full permission to hold me accountable as well. If you ever see me treat your mommy in any way less then the way I wrote above, let me know. If I don’t listen, call my close friends. You have permission. I’ll never, ever, ever be mad at you for holding me accountable to that. My promise to you is that you will grow up in a home overflowing with love because your mom and I both have a love in us that surpasses all understanding. As soon as we found out you were in “there” we have been praying that one day you to would come to know this great love to. I love you, and I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, REALLY can’t wait to meet you. You have some really cool toys, and I can’t wait to play with them with you!
/humbled.
rick.